Sunday, July 14, 2013

Country cousin/City cousin



Yelapa opens its piers, beaches and palapa doors to visitors year round. The surge occurs between November and April; the weather is perfect, the skies are clear and total tropical immersion is just a margarita away. As summer takes root in May, the surge diminishes to a trickle not unlike the town waterfall, and locals settle in for what we ironically call “the dry” season. The May/June time frame offers a dramatic reminder that our tourist-based economy, like our environment, is fragile. All but a handful of restaurants batten their hatches and the village retreats to survival mode.

July ushers in the winding down of the academic year. Several graduations require planning. Countless family parties demand organizing, purchasing and scheduling. The last activity, scheduling, is the most rigorous as it would be unforgivable to schedule your event at the same moment as another. No doubt, somewhere on a living room wall in Yelapa is a pert diagram which tracks all such happenings. By the Friday punctuating mid-July, the party pandemonium ceases. Parents and god-parents sigh in relief.

Mexican parents’ vacations, like those elsewhere in the world, are determined/defined by their children’s holidays from school. For the ensuing six weeks, the bulk of our visitors will be Mexican families. Their stay involves but a few days or a weekend and back they trek. They populate the main beach, drink beer from imported coolers and spend relatively little money. A trickle continues from across the border, or even the border beyond, but they are few.

There is yet another genre of visitor who ventures to Yelapa. Allow me to digress. It is a fact that each one of the four founding family elders was born into a family which bore between nine and eleven siblings. That generation replicated the family size into which they had grown. The following generation tended to downsize by roughly fifty percent but remained sizable none the less. Now, where is all this Mexican genealogical math going? It is intended to enhance your understanding of the feeling of community existent in our village. Without stretching too far, one quickly extrapolates that virtually everyone is related, even distantly, to everyone else. As family members departed Yelapa for the allure of the big city or just to flee, they continued to procreate. The resulting point of all this is that those family members, along with their broods, return throughout the summer. The children are easy to spot as they are attired in bright new shirts, shorts, and shoes. I call them “the city cousins.” They speak more rapidly, and appear uncomfortable at the lack of street lights or designated crossing zones. There is a discernible absence of their previously ever-accompanying parent. Approaching motos (quads) startle them and cause them to run away. Their hosts, the local kin, “country cousins” are initially entertained by these foreign antics but will over time share the requisite survival skills. Hornos and barbeques dormant for months are scoured and reactivated. A plethora of cooking aromas arise throughout the village. It is a time for celebrating the family. Perhaps the following Monday or sometime mid-week, the visiting parents all manage to slip away silently and unceremoniously. You see where this is headed, right? 

All the progeny stay for another two weeks or so. Let me convey the scope. I live at ground zero for the largest family clan in Yelapa. As I write, there are at least five “country cousins” engaged with a like number of “city cousins.” The game of choice appears to be chase. They chase the chickens in the yard across the path. They chase the garobos which venture out of the numerous rock piles. They chase a pair of squirrels which dart overhead from branch to branch. When nothing else moves, and generally as a last resort, they chase each other. All the while squealing with joy, shadowed by barking dogs and accented by nervous chickens cackling and roosters crowing. It is a cacophony which repeats itself perhaps in a hundred village households each day. It assaults my definition of tranquility. But alas, I remain, on occasion, a stranger in what is, on occasion, a strange land.   

Commercial Break
Call Memo for this week’s special 322 146 5064 (cell). May I suggest you call earlier versus later? If I have to walk down to the playita in the middle of the day, the special tends to get less special. You know what I mean? Happy paddling.           

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